I rarely look at Twitter these days but when I do there is always someone with a bee in their bonnet and there is always lots of fighting
The escort industry has progressed in many ways but in some ways I feel we are going backwards
Having been in this industry for over 18 years I have seen us progress, we are now out of the shadows and have a voice but are we showing ourselves in the best light?
In 2017 I definately noticed an increase in public nastiness and bullying and its such a shame to see
We say that escorting is empowering yet I doubt many outsiders looking at Twitter would see us as an empowered group, more like a narcissistic group of nasty bitches and whingers
If a lady makes a wrong word choice she could could have 25 strangers attack her online. It would be great if twitter was a safe space to say your thoughts but it’s not and only the strongest ladies come away unscathed
Being an escort is hard enough without ladies piling shit on each other and I have seen so many girls in tears or suffer panic attacks & anxiety over what is said to them or about them on twitter
Then there is all the nastiness posted about clients… Gents are our business, they spend their hard earned money with our businesses. I see real names & phone numbers posted on twitter without so much of a thought for the gent or the impact it may have on his life.
I personally know a gent that has lost everything due to his information being posted on Twitter; his marriage broke up and he lost his job all because he made 1 comment to an escort that she didn’t like (he didn’t say anything wrong IMHO – he asked a simple question)
Previously I have posted my thoughts or frustrations on Twitter but it never helped me or my business. I have offered information, been shot down or slandered and had my words twisted to fit someone else’s purpose
Escorts have wanted to argue with me or ridicule me but mostly escorts just ignore me cause I am an agency (not a person with many years industry experience, just an agency lol).
Bullying, bitching, and gossiping has always been a part of this industry but it was never so public and it’s getting worse. On social media ladies are openly attacking each other and trolls can get in on the act as well. Lies now spread like wildfire and false information can become facts quite quickly. There is 3 sides to every story and often only 1 side is portrayed
The ‘community’ that is often mentioned, simply doesn’t exist
There are a few cliques, there are a few girls that everyone sucks up to because you want to get retweets form them but community, is fictional.
It’s a dog eat dog business
In all fairness; I don’t know of an industry where competitors help each other. The reality is that we are all businesses and in some ways we all competing but there is no need for the bullying, can’t we just let everyone do their thing?
If what an escort says on Twitter doesn’t directly affect you or your business then why get involved?
Who cares how another escort portrays herself or her business. It’s her business what she does, not yours!
Atlantic is a business and whilst I have good relationships with many escort and other agencies, I am not going to share my secrets of success with them
However I will share information privately about safety issues, dangerous clients etc. I will also recommend them to gents who contact me should I have nobody available and they recommend me the same way.
None of us own any clients, gents go when & where they choose but I know gents do appreciate quality recommendations especially with the huge amount of fakery online these days
All the years I have been in this business I have learnt so many lessons. This business is hard! As much as I have enjoyed my time as an escort and agency owner I have made a tonne of mistakes and through my choices I have thought ending my life was the only way forward. Yes it can get that bad
The Escort business is not easy money, it is super tough, bitchy and competitive. Anyone that says otherwise is not being honest
Ladies and gents if you ever need a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to, I believe in confidentiality, I am a good listener and happy to have a chat. I am saying that as Sarah, a mature woman who has been through a lot, a human being with a heart, I am not just an agency 🙂